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SEX IS NOT LOVE BY ADENIRAN JOSEPH







SEX IS NOT LOVE


DEAR reader. I hope you're very visual about what SEX means? But the most cunning aspect is:most people don't understand meaning of love. With that, They get abusing it. Because they're lacking the actual verse of it. Most times I look around, seeing people getting drugs of SEX for LOVE. This Prove truly they're really enjoying themselves. Or, what they're doing is actually the best thing important in a relationship ethics. Sorry to convince you. SEX is actually not love. I mean not a love at all. 
Firstly, SEX as been accommodated by most valued ones. When am talking about most valued, I mean couples. In a sense of many.
Now let look into the statistics of SEX:


1. If a male SEX a female without being engaged or married. There's actually 100% that the relationship won't last again. Why? Because SEX is a very powerful thing you can't just chip into anyhow. There's always a connection between a male and a female having SEX. That's most opportunity of some spiritual powers used to challenge a male or female. If you have SEX. It doesn't mean you truly love your partner. That's is most hilarious part. SEX most time doesn't come from physical aspect. When you see your partner, doing different sort of styles and romantic moves. It can Also be done through feelings or mind-thinking. Even in the aspect of daydreaming. Any of them. Most time guys sees a gorgeous ladies on streets and you find it difficult to comprehend the beauty and you sat in a corner of your room or house; Squeezing your pennis and putting the image of the lady in your memory. If you'd such. Dear reader, you're killing yourself emotionally. 

2.SEX passes through different ways before accomplished. If you have an intention to SEX a lady. Maybe your girlfriend. And at last you'd. It's nothing than Sucide mission. Because you have got exposed to many things. Body feels body. Flesh feels flesh. Only if condom is used. That you may survive any diseases coming through from it. 

3.I found it so difficult to explain this aspect. When I say SEX is not important in a relationship. But people don't believe. They always get bewildered and troubled with my bitter truth. In relationship aspect you don't take things very tough. You don't force your opponent to have SEX with you. You don't tell him/her to give you what he/she doesn't wish out .All you should know is trust. 

4.Try hold youeslf from every cheap SEX. Reduce watching porn videos. Recently, I saw a child of 10 years of age watching porn videos in her mom's phone. If you know you have these videos; try to keep them away from children. They'd evils in them. Nothing good will always come out from it. 

5.If you SEX all time with your opponent in dating section. Not courtship. You won't see your relationship as a whole again. It will be just a relationship of SEX. Believe me. SEX must not be that misued. Lack of everything and use of everything causes elimination of life spern. Am not saying death. But all I mean is ability to do like a man will be reduced and form of zero love to your lady.
Love is not love If no trust is attached. You can love thousands of people and you won't have a single trust in them. Love doesn't means affection atimes. But a show of care and feelings. Though you'd care for everyone. But have you ever sat on a stool of hoping to love everyone equally?  It's not possible. Those languages of love like:
  • Dear. 
  • Honey. 
  • Sweet heart. 
  • Sugar pie. 
  • Love. 
  • Darling. 
  • Baby. 
  • Angel. 
  • My life. 
  • My World. 
  • My everything. 
All listed above are love languages, right. But not all are effective or either positive in terms of true feelings or actions. Your female friend can call you love or dear. It's normal. But when it comes to showing the real you of your statement or defending it. You found none.
Love doesn't have statistics I could mention. But only should be known as one.
On this note, Sex is not love.
Don't love because of sex.
Don't sex because of love. 


 Written by:
Adeniran joseph
   Prince Joe.
    2017.

NAME: ADENIRAN JOSEPH O. 
FACEBOOK : ADENIRAN JOSEPH

3 comments:

  1. Interesting Article. Wow

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    I SO MUCH LOVE THIS ARTICLE. I WISH TO SEE ANOTHER WORK FROM THE SAME WRITER.

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